Cheese With Your Whine?

3.26.2006

When "family" invades your blog

So, I get this nasty little comment on the picture I posted a few posts back about how things could always be worse. Just scroll down and you'll see it.

It was of course from Anon -

Cassy,You are totally disgusting and crude. I can't believe you would post that or take the time to find it!!

So I responded:

Anon - If I'm so disgusting and crude, why the hell did you spend 35 minutes and 26 seconds at my site, that you got to from my sister's blog and left by clicking next blog?This is my space and I don't care if you like it or not. You certainly didn't have to spend a half hour here, look at 8 pages and see that picture of Rylee in Times Square. You're not welcome here. Go away and don't come back

Oh, and I didn't find it. It was sent to me as a joke from someone who knows that I'm going through some seriously difficult times right now. It was funny, and a nice reminder that yes, things can always be worse. Gawd.

You've gotta love sitemeter that lets you see exactly who is here for how long and what they look at.

Anon then responded:

Well Cassy,I thought it might be cool to see my nieces and nephews by the way Rylee is a very cute baby girl. Sorry that you're going through tough times but you got yourself into the mess and you can certainly get out of it if you want to. I'm not meaning to be judgemental but excuses don't get you anywhere. I'm sure if you try you can get yourself out of the hard times. Maybe if you talked to dad and actually tried to have a relationship with him things might be better. I don't know the whole story but a relationship is a two way thing that doesn't have to always involve money. If you haven't figured it out yet it's your little sister Alissa. Didn't mean to offend you but you're not the person I thought you were.

My response:

Alyssa,

Do youself a favor and don't call yourself my sister. I have two of those who actually get what that means.

You have no idea what my life is like. You've never tried to find out either. I did NOT get myself into the hard times I'm having now. Again, talking out your ass about something you have no clue about.

Rylee is not a mess. This has nothing to do with her. You are so out of line it's not funny.

And no, you don't know what's going on with Dad, someone who has chosen not to see his grandkids for over a year, who walked out of my life when I was 12 and never would have come back. I had to find him.

BTW, if you're going to be a judgemental bitch, do it to my face, on the phone or in an email to ME, not bashing me on my blog, which I've never given to you or dad... for a reason. I don't want you here.Go away. Like forever.

Oh, and how old are you?? Oh yeah, that's right. You're a teenager. Read...someone who has no freaking clue, b/c you haven't seen a damn thing in life.

This person is my 15 year old half sister from my sperm donor's second marriage that ended a year or so ago. Someone who when she found out that I was pregnant tried to talk my ddad out of letting me come see them. And who said she would never have anything to do with my baby. As if I'd let her. Of course, being 15 and all wise, she is able to tell me what's what and how to go about living my life.

So, Alyssa, I thought I'd save you the trouble of having to go to the comments section to read my response. Fuck off. How's that for crude?

Posted by cassy :: 3/26/2006 :: 21 Cheese Crumbles:

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